SOLVED
In the end it was me derping out. My userconfig folder was named " userconfg" ... yeeah.. not gonna work.
After 4 team viewer sessions, the hero, PFC Bingham with the eagle eye spotted the problem.
If anyone ever has the same issue its probably becouse your Arma3 and Teamspeak dont see eye to eye.
So checking your plugins, userconfig, and mod data will get you closer to solving your problem.
Anyway, i want to thank everyone for their effort, i really appreciate it. I would have never figured this out on my own, even tho it was a noob mistake.
Special thanks to CPL.Owens , SSG.McKelvie and PFC.Bingham for making the effort of troubleshooting over teamspeak and team viewer .