Talk with guys in your squad and get to know them a bit. It really helps. It's rough being the new guy in a unit of guys that have know each other for 6 months or more but try to be open and talk about stuff (life, gaming, how much ISIS sucks, etc). Let them get to know you and do fun missions or other games with them. Pretty much everyone on is just waiting for someone to talk to or shoot the shit out with or game with.
Play on the assault server every now and then. You work with guys you'd never work with in any other scenario (example, almost no where else will you play with a jet pilot, a helo pilot, an engineer, and a brand new PV2 all dressed in civvies playing scavenger)
This is a Fantastic Topic and Thank You SGT Lyons!! I particularly like this that I have quoted more for this part..
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try to be open and talk about stuff (life, gaming, how much ISIS sucks, etc)."
As Cheesy as this may sound, there are a lot of resources available to you here at a click or channel away. More educated, life learned and or just an age difference that can assist in so many different ways and help on this famed road of Life. Where the hell is this coming from and why the hell state it here?? Because through the members here that you'll eventually become friends with or already have you can share your experiences and relate to them with someone.
An Example:
First, let me please state that this is in no way shape form or fashion a Brag or LOOK @ Me Post. I'm not like that and don't want to be. Second I'm Older.. so there silver in my hair from a lot of experiences anyway...
I was in a Pursuit yesterday evening. It was exciting, frightening and such an adrenaline rush it is unable to put into words it started with a Bad Guy, yes a Real Bad Guy intentionally driving the wrong way down an Interstate it had 2 breaks of contact. It ended with the Bad Guy getting caught however, one thing, anything could've happened that could have gone horribly wrong. After that rush and exhilaration and that reality hits and then you have the emotional and physical adrenaline dump how do you cope and cope in a good way? This is an unnatural act which occurs to the human body and you can't do anything immediately anyway so what the hell can you do??
Some work out, do PT, read, watch TV, Drink or do some other type of "activity". Realize some can have and be negative, I generally try to game, confide with my wife and have friends that I have here and elsewhere that I can TALK TO!! That is my long winded point. No matter what you may face, whatever comes down the pike, there is someone, somewhere within this Unit that has had the same or at least similar circumstance that you can share with.
Yes it's formed around the premise of a Game and MilSim Unit but it however has so much more to offer. Friendships, Brotherhood, Gaming friends whatever. It's all at your fingertips. You just have to exercise it. Don't let the Ranks fool you either, there may be a Military Retiree, A Veteran from back in the day or one that is recent out to someone currently serving their perspective Country that they are from to an Beat Up Old Ornery Patrol Sergeant behind that PV1, PFC or above Rank.
So to the topic at hand and your resources... They are here Brothers!!! Use Them!!
Thanks for letting me share and Y'all be safe!!!
Murf