I think we cross dangerous ground when we start trying to second guess policy. It is our job to carry out the mission assigned to us by the National Command Authority, the Chief of Staff and in the regional theater commanders. Our entire system is designed to have civilian control over the armed forces; it's sacrosanct.
However, I completely understand your feelings. It makes me sick to watch what the RPLA is doing the same as you, but there are serious implications to consider. We don't want to get in a direct shooting war that could involve Russia and Poland without weighing all the factors.
Just my two cents.